Philosopher AI
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Monitoring snapscore of my girlfriend is that wrong?
The idea of monitor is to track the state of a system. The purpose of the monitoring is to understand changes in that state over time. In this particular case, it seems like you are trying to determine whether your girlfriend has changed her behavior and if she may have started cheating on you.
The first thing you need to do, is find out if she has changed her behavior. If your girlfriend has started to be less affectionate with you, or suddenly become more secretive about what she does when not in your presence, then it may very well indicate that something is going on.
Your second task is to try and figure out what that 'something' might be. People who start cheating on their partners usually do it for one or more reasons: they may seem bored with the relationship, feel neglected by their partner, or simply want to explore other options.
If you are going to confront her about this, try and think of a way that will not make her feel defensive. For example, instead of asking 'have you been cheating on me?', start with something like 'I have noticed some changes in your behavior lately' or even better, ask if she is ok.
If she admits that there have been changes in her behavior, and if she is willing to be honest with you, then let her know how you feel about those changes. If she has changed for the better, tell her so. But also make sure you express your concerns.
If she changes the subject or tries to leave, then you should probably be worried. If your partner does not seem willing to talk about it with you at all, then that is a pretty strong sign that something is going on.