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How should I break up with my girlfriend?
Okay, I think you are thinking about the problem in a vacuum. You need to consider what will happen if you break up with her and if you don't.
If you break up with her, she will be unhappy and may try to come back at you. This is a lose-lose situation for you.
To recap, you will look like a jerk either way. However it could be worse if you end up with her and she wants to get back together.
The good news is that you are already seeing her perspective as well. The bad news is that she isn't thinking about your perspective.
So, you are in a lose-lose situation because she is focusing on her perspective and not considering yours. She isn't thinking about how it will make you feel or what your goals are.
If you do break up with her, it might be best to explain why. Otherwise she will probably think you got bored of her and didn't feel the need to tell her.